Which task?

Here the word call becomes important.

We are not called to save the world, solve all problems, and help all people.  But we each have our own unique call, in our families, in our work, in our world. We have to keep asking God to help us see clearly what our call is and to give us the strength to live out that call with trust.  Then we will discover that our faithfulness to a small task is the most healing response to the illnesses of our time.

- Henri Nouwen

Ecclesia part 1

A few of you have asked for sources about my take on ecclesia. It’s simple.

I go to my shelf and look up ecclesia in the standard-setting Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and other early Christian literature, Walter Bauer, translated by Arndt & Gingrich. (See pic.)

ecclesia

The primary definition is not Christian, but political. In fact it’s not until the fourth definition that you get a sense of a particularly Christian implication, and this developed because of the context anyway.

See how Paul opens his letters by specifying that he’s writing to the ecclesia of God in that town, not the primary meaning of ecclesia.

See how Acts 19:32-40 uses the very same word ecclesia, but without a specifier it means “town meeting,” the primary meaning of ecclesia. (Mark D Roberts concurs.)

When Jesus first used the word in Mat 16:18, it had no Christian connotation. Everyone would have understood Jesus meant ecclesia in the primary sense of the word. “I will build my ecclesia” = “I will build my town meeting.”

In the hearers’ ears, this could mean either:
1) his meeting would be like a town meeting, concerned with the affairs of the town, but done in his Way;
2) his meeting would be concerned with his “town.”

In either case, it did not mean “church” in the English dictionary sense of the term.

If Jesus meant “a gathering of his faithful, to encourage one another and to study the scriptures,” it would seem much more natural for him to use the word synagogue, in the Jewish tradition, which he was extending. But he chose ecclesia, a concept primarily dripping with the concerns of the polis.

Even when the Septuagint uses ecclesia to describe Israel, it still has this political nuance. After all, Israel was the chosen nation of God.

Jesus wants us to regularly gather, concerned with the town around us, and to develop that community in his Way. That’s got to be a large part (not the only part) of what the meeting is about!

Meeting without that primary concern for the town, is meeting in a way that is fundamentally less than Jesus intended. 

Cheers-log 2011-07 Steering

From the Steering meeting yesterday:

1. We articulated ground-rules for how we behave when together, just as a way of managing any lazy defaults that might otherwise creep in. (These can be reviewed at anytime.)

In Meetings: friendly, inclusive, open, non-judgemental, safe, supportive, ‘out-of-box’ (not stuck in own little world), flexible, educational (taking ownership of our own learning), contributions from all, no over-talking, no waffling, quiet play for toddlers, summarize (one thing), more time for people to download at start.

The Leader: reminder email, prepared (put together MC agenda), some good theological input, boundaries on kids, keep group on track.

Team Relating: be in communication, eat with each other, help for a date night /respite, trust enough to conflict well. (Trust>conflict>commit>account>results)

The leader (usually me), will be evaluated by the group as to how well I keep us to these agreed ground-rules.

2. C24 Contributions: Also we discussed how some feel “intimidated” about coming to Cheers 24 because everyone is expected to contribute something about the topic. Actually it’s not so much intimidated as uncomfortable if they didn’t bring something, and if they did, scared they might be wrong. We agreed to:

  • Maintain the expectation that all contribute, but make sure we don’t make anyone feel lesser if they don’t, and are careful with people’s contributions to ensure they feel safe and loved with it. Encourage the activist, contributor DNA.
  • Revisit resource books, and the bookmark of starter ideas. And the different pathways of expressions of learning/worship.

3. Next Topic for Cheers 24 will be key chapters from the Emmaus Road conversation (Luke 24) when Jesus explained about the prophecies concerning him. This solid foundation will help firm up people’s foundations when they have doubts about the Christian life. And after, it looks like we might revisit the Beatitudes again. Sounds great.

Shortly I will edit this blog to add those key chapters for the Emmaus Road series. Obviously next C24 will be Luke 24.

Cheers-log 2011-05 people programs

Rookies on a "playground crawl"

On Fridays after school, about a dozen pre-teens come to our house until 7pm. (I was inspired by Coralie Smart’s faithfulness in the Corrigen district.)

When inviting them, we clarify, “this is not a youth group, not a drop in centre, it’s our home. We’re not running something for you, we are inviting you to participate in our life – something far more precious.”  We invite them because we have come to trust them enough, and their families trust us.

They called it “Rookies” because they are aware they have much to learn, and want to learn & discuss things with trusted adults (besides their parents). So we do life: we play yes, but also garden, prepare meals, and clean up. And after dinner, we discuss life-matters, and faith issues too. One day they will rename it to reflect their growth.

Almost a year on, and the signs are good. The kids are learning how to grow a good social network, and share life with their peers, and discuss life with peers. They are learning how to take responsibility for their time together not just be consumers.
We actually started this about 5 years ago with 4 junior teens. Now 2 of those who have journeyed with us on Fridays ever since, are helping with Rookies from 5 till 7, and then we do older stuff from 730 on. They’re fantastic young adults now.
And to think, there’s no way we could have run a ‘youth group’…

campers heading off for sunset beach walk

Cheers Family Camp was a great success again this last holidays.

8 families, 26 people, 5 days, perfect weather, a beautiful beach, campfire, and “Mr Potato-Head and The Hokey-Pokey” – er, the family times were about using the five senses in community life, and putting your whole self in. Like Jesus did – and still does!

Everyone grew in relationships with family, neighbors, and God. Beeeeyewdiful!

The Round Table grapevine is working great! The latest test was this:
We are hosting the Watoto Childrens’ Choir again this year, and had agreed to a generous offer to promote this in a glossy magazine for every household in the suburb. But when we returned from camp and two weeks away, we could see that the glossy had been delayed and with less than two weeks to go, the community would be unprepared for this gem of a family concert / community event.

So I sent an email to the Round Table, and within a day:
- the state MP had the event posted on their website,
- the newspaper had been contacted
- one man volunteered to deliver 50 posters to businesses to display in their premises
- the schools added it to their  newsletters
- school staff are asking can they bring their grandparents
- the glossy may still get to the homes, albeit the day before the concert.

When it counts, I’ll go with the power of relationships over programs every time.

Rookies make the vision real

Cheers-log 2011-01: Too Much for us!

Must be time for a sabbatical. The people of Cheers are all feeling like Betty, the mosquito here.

But who can take time off life? We need to step back this year from involvements in programs. And yes that means we’re willing to let them fall if that’s what happens. We need to recover, and find time again for people. In 2010 the programs and powers were too much for us.

The Residents Association - one lesson is that we shouldn’t represent people, but rather inform them, and let them act if they will. We’ve been caught a few times representing the views of 50 or 100 people, then when it’s time for them to stand up and be counted, they’ve lost hope or interest. We suspect most people just don’t believe anything can change.

Local School - Here we got involved with Council, P&C, and various task groups. The staff and parents were so grateful for our efforts, but the senior staff not so much – the most senior was generating the problem. We ran head-on into politics, direct defiance and deceit. We represented parents, when they should have been allowed to all represented themselves, but it wasn’t allowed. We learned that the Ed Dept Grievance Processes actually exist to protect the department, not to investigate grievances. This goes all the way to the top, and it was just horrible being disrespected and dismissed at every level. [There was one exception to this. A guy came from Student Services to listen to what was the matter. He was the only one who asked or listened. Over the summer, he and Student Services have been axed. Now DET has effectively removed their last remaining accountability.]
Sally represented parents in the Behavior Management Group but was treated abysmally by the two outsider “experts” who came to “run their process.” Apparently their process includes treating with contempt anyone who asks questions. Very painful.
I know you think we must be exaggerating because of our personal pain, but I assure you we’re not. I’m sharing it here to illustrate that sometimes when community volunteers clash with paid power-brokers, the results can be horrible. Both Sally and I were literally floored at times, simply for questioning corrupt processes.

So this year we know better, and are asking not so much for courage as: “grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change… and the wisdom to know the difference.”

  • I’m reducing to a smaller role on Council, to assist from the side not the Chair.
  • Sally is stepping out of that task group
  • The BG Residents Association will probably fail for lack of participants
  • The local newsletter with it
  • other Cheers people are stopping their role in other programs

On the other hand, we will spend more time with people:

  • Rookies, for under 12′s on Friday nights at our house.
  • Family Camp in April
  • Watoto Choir visit
  • Round Table
  • Cheers 13 and Cheers 24
  • more BBQs

 

We have some recovering to do, so we’ll be recovering together!

In other news, the Elliots have left. Which was sad for us, but we were so grateful to have them during this tough year. They blogged about their time with us, and we were delighted to read:

Geoff and Sally it turns out are a couple who we connected with really well as we are very like minded and really enjoyed hanging out. I’ll always credit these guys with helping us find a direction to take our beliefs when we settle down (I’m not expanding that point here). Our friends the Westlakes are doing awesome things in Banksia Grove (along with a pile of friends) in very intentionally involving themselves in the community, school and lives of anyone who has a need to make the suburb a better place to live. They have opened their house and experience in Community outreach to all and are really making a difference.

Ha! They wrote that about us in a really bad year – Sal and I would rate last year as one of our worst in terms of circumstances and how we coped. BUT the Cheers Network really stood up and supported each other and us, more than ever! So despite our personal pains, God continues to transform us and develop disciples & maturity here in BG! That’s what made 2010 into a good year after all!

1Thess 2:8,13 comes to mind:

Because of our love for you we delighted to share not only the Good News with you, but even our own lives. You were so dear to us. …When we brought you God’s message, you heard it and accepted it, not as a message from human beings but as God’s message, which indeed it is. For God is at work in you who believe.

Cheers!

Cheers-log 2010-10 Answers

I can’t believe it has been a year since I gave you an update on Cheers. Not only are we still here, we have been going well. Even though there have been serious hardships in the neighborhood, our anchor-points have been strong: family, work, and Cheers. This has helped support us in the struggle to assist in the neighborhood.

Last report, I mentioned our ache and prayer for Communitas. IT HAPPENED! Around November, the Elliots visited. Pippa (our daughter) took the initiative to meet Lachlan (their son of the same age). The Elliots then spent their summer in Colorado, then returned to Banksia Grove in Feb, and Lachlan was looking forward to school because of the contact Pippa made. Since then a really strong friendship has formed between us and them, but also with others in the neighborhood. Belinda has a natural pastoral way (a gift we needed), and Nigel has been very keen to understand what he has been observing and participating in here.Both of them have been a great encouragement to Sal and I, even though they may only be here for a year, as they are working their way around Australia from Cairns. Please pray God shows them where to settle for the short term and longer term.

Family Camp was very good this April. the topic was Joining the Dots of community development. 8 families came, and made strong commitments to follow through with standing together back at home. And they have. There’s now a strong core of women who meet on Tuesdays, and they have been working through the E100 Bible verses from Scripture Union, but it’s the honesty in their discussions that provides great learning as well as mutual support. God often comes to them through each other. They also do an exercise-book similar to Cheers 13, and have seen many answers to their prayers.

Cheers 13 answers have included:

  • Healings (including my heart surgery & electrical problems)
  • Emergency Acomodation for battlers
  • Blossoming of teens we’ve been hosting for years, into fine young adults already
  • Movie nights on the lawn
  • my book (Treading On God’s Heels) has been written, and proved very timely & useful for people here
  • difficult meetings and confrontations going better than expected
  • reducing street violence in the neighborhood (especially three specific situations)
  • positive reinforcement at the primary school (where parents were just leaving before)
  • personal changes in a few men, as well as the women mentioned before,
  • and better development of individuals growth and participation

We continue to be involved in running The Round Table of stakeholders in the suburb, to collaborate in solving problems including street violence and saving the water aquifer from industrial zoning. I also introduced them to the primary local aboriginal elder. We have local Sports on the Courts each third Sunday. And we kept the Residents Association alive – that’s an interesting one: the Residents Association started and auspiced two new groups: The Pod community garden) and Spring in the Grove (local community event), which now want to incorporate and stand alone, and took volunteers with them, which has reduced the Residents Association volunteer energy below critical mass. All we can do is keep it in a holding pattern until more interested people arrive.

Cheers 24 has persevered with the “Show And Tell” approach using the bookmark (right), and it is paying most dividends for those who bring something, but also by adding more insights to the topics than one person’s preparation alone.

One big highlight was after some street violence that directly traumatized one of our families. We decided that everyone had to bring something from the Bible about suffering and trauma. And this family did – it was by far the best contribution, simply involving some Bible verses, and pictures they drew about: what they experienced on the night; what they felt like doing; and what God wants them to do.

We’ve been working our way through different ways to approach God, and have been using chapters from Treading on God’s Heels. There are always fresh insights for us all.

We have been using Dropbox online, so that changes to the program can be seen by everyone. People can change the document themselves if they need to also. We are literally on the same page.

The Hard Stuff

The local school has taken by far the lion’s share of our time and efforts, not in a good way. We have had to lobby, and argue, and contact the Ed Dept only to be let down by them. Over 40 families are concerned about the many escalating behavior management offenses at the school, but the principal won’t look at those parents’ testimonies. He has a different philosophy from the staff and parents – it’s very difficult.

The point is, Sally and I are at the forefront of this conflict. We don’t like it, it’s stressful and energy-sapping, and means we don’t have time for other more positive initiatives with Cheers. But we can’t not do it, because so many families (100′s) are affected by what is going on there. We have not seen our prayers answered yet. So we struggle to see how this is the best use of our time.

We pray, we tune in to God and try to discern His will for us. And sometimes we simply do what we can. Sometimes we are uncertain, but all we can do is our best. Hard as it is, family, work, and Cheers have being doing well. A great support. Thank God.

Geoff hospitalized again

Hi,

June 2010:
I’m typing from bed in the Cardiac Care Unit in Perth. My heart has been racing with, for those in the know, atrial fibrilation. Not life-threatening, but my resting heart rate fluctuates between 70 and 160 bpm. So I’m facing at least 4 days of observations, balancing medications, and scans.
One of my kids asked, “What else are they going to find!”
I replied, “Well I’m glad they’re finding it and treating it!” I’d be in trouble otherwise.
Please pray that they are able to return my heart permanently to “good rhythm,” asap. And that I wont have to permanently be on heart-rate controlling medications.
Thanks.
UPDATE:
It’s now 4 days later, they’ve thinned my blood and zapped me (cardioversion) to get my heart beating in good rhythm again. And sent me home with a swag of medications to: keep the blood from clotting, keeep the heart rate down and in good rhythm, keep cholesterol low… about 10 in all.
So how do I feel about being on so many medicines?
Well, the way I see it, this body wasn’t meant to last forever! It’s only a 4D vehicle (for space and time). It wears out eventually. We all do know that, right – it’s just that we try not to think about it.
So as it wears out, we have to manage the injuries. Just like in my footy career, when I rolled an ankle or got cut, if I’m going to keep playing, I say, “strap it up and get me back out there.” Well if I want to keep playing in life, I need to manage my wearing vehicle.
Besides, I pretty much have bonus years now. Without the technology we have now, I would probably have had a proper stroke by now, and become incapacitated or worse. So I’m very thankful that I’ve got a team strapping me up to keep playing. And my wife and kids are pretty glad about it too. So I learn the medicines and take them, so I can… PLAY ON!!!

UPDATE: 20/1/2011
The heart hole has sealed over.
I’ve been taken off Warfarin. No more blood thinners except aspirin.
I’ve come off Amioderone, only metoprolol to regulate the rhythm.
So that’s pretty much cured.
Thanks so much for your prayers & calls.

Hallelujah!

Cheers-log: theology of church practice

If you’ve heard my summary description of Cheers, you may know that we use Acts 2:42-47 as a kind of summary description of what a church is supposed to DO.

But don’t make the mistake of thinking we therefore have a shallow theology of the church.

1) We use Acts 2:42-47 to describe what the church DOES, not the totality of what church IS.

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So for example, in John, church is the Branches of the divine Vine. In Paul, we’re the Body of Christ, an Army in a spiritual battle, in Luke a Flock who know the Shepherd’s voice. Luke also tells us about the places where churches start – homes that functioned as larger meeting places where people shared life. In Mark we’re a political force, and in Matthew we’re a community development movement. Indeed in the Old Covenant ecclesia is a gathering of the the people of God, spiritual and political. In fact across the whole Bible we get details and nuances about who and what we are – that’s what the Bible is for!

So of course we know that Acts 2 can’t give us the whole picture. But, with a bit of defining, Acts 2 happens to summarise what the church DOES - its Core Practices.

This passage, then, is not about Core beliefs, not about who we are, nor our state of being (eg Branches in the Vine, Flock, Family, etc.) It’s about our core tasks, practices, what we’re meant to actually DO. And other passages about our tasks can be summarised under the headings of the practices mentioned here. Which brings us to…

2) Acts 2:42-47 as a summary passage to encapsulate the practices mentioned elsewhere.

For example, Acts 2 says we “pray,” so this can encompass songs, contemplation, psalms, lament, celebration, symbols, and so on. Likewise with all the headings I derive from Acts 2.

As we read across the whole Bible, certain themes are repeated. Read it enough times and a pattern begins to emerge – all the different images tie in with these same few practices. For example, we’re meant to be God-centered noticing and participating with God’s action in the world. These practices can be clumped into a few general categories.

And Acts 2:42-47 neatly refers to each of these categories. So if you want to see what a church DOES in general categories, Acts 2 serves as a good summary. Then each category of practices can be unpacked at length, using other passages across the Scriptures.

Plus you can use Church tradition and local Culture to flesh out each practice in ways that have depth and make sense to us.

3) Deconstruct to Reconstruct locally.

Missionaries do this boiling down, this deconstructing into basic categories. Only then, once they’ve done it, can they begin to ask, “so what might this Core Practice look like in this cultural setting.”

For example, one category is that we “pray.” So that could involve singing, symbols, feasting, fasting, contemplating, circling, silence, verbalising, etc. So which ways of praying fit with this culture? And which will perhaps be valuable extensions later?

All kinds of missionaries and churches have done this basic deconstruction and come up with the same three general categories: Worship, Discipleship, Mission. Or, worded differently, God-ward, Inward, Outward. Or Loving God, loving each other, and loving the world. The words may differ, but the three general directions are the same.

Here’s our deconstructed categories of Core Practices, lifted from Acts 2:42-47 (you can see the same three general categories):

  1. Seeing – noticing God’s action in the world, “signs and wonders.”
  2. Praying – our response to God’s action, “praise prayer, breaking bread,” baptism included here.
  3. Learning – from Scripture, “devoted themselves to the Apostles’ teaching.”
  4. Friendship – modern way of saying “fellowship,” incorporates the spiritual unity of the Spirit resonating among us, AND also the movement of love outside the gathering. Likewise, “breaking bread in each others homes,” reminds us of Luke 10 practices.
  5. Serving – give your gift. This is about not only the “common purse” but “sharing as each had need,” including outwards to orphans and widows. We incude here passages about our leavening effect in the world, our saltiness, and the community-development orientation of ecclesia.
  6. Explaining – verbal explanation must have been a part, because “the Lord added to their number daily.” And going and explaining is what Acts is all about, indeed we see this same sentness across Scripture.

In this way, we use Acts 2:42-47 to summarize the Core Practices of Cheers. But it’s by no means the only passage we have. It’s a summary of all.

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Cheers-log 2009-09 Communitas

It’s more than community - which can just be living well with others, in a form of unity & respect. Community is OK, it’s good – it’s far better than isolation. Or being enemies.

But lately, Sal & I have been wanting …more.

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Communitas - the bond of friendship forged between committed participants through experiencing an ordeal together, or sharing the load of working towards a higher purpose.

It’s the kind of bond between soldiers, or young initiates forced relied on each other to survive their initiation ordeals. It’s footballers who would never dream of deserting their mates during a match, but put their body on the line. It doesn’t come from just saying it should: it comes as a by-product of something greater than us.

Communitas isn’t a warm, relaxing space where you can come and go as you please. Communitas requires commitment, integrity, hard work, and courage. In short, communitas is about love. - Mike Frost

True peers. Comrades who share our commitment, & share our higher purpose in life, in this place. Dependable friends who have their own dream and drive, taking their own initiatives in concert with us.

There are some such people here. One or two are very close to us, & committed to the cause. Yet I guess we just want more of them. More friends who:

  • share that committed bond with us or with others, of commitment to the higher purpose of making real the Dream of a better world in BG & beyond.
  • share the communitas of equally appreciating how the spiritual dimensions drive and empower the rest of our life & actions, and aren’t afraid to talk about it, to grow in it as we encourage each other along.
  • share the communitas of parenting with wholistic values, upholding clear moral & ethical frameworks, to give our kids confidence to grow & learn & act, in a culture that seems to have no real clarity, confidence, or direction.

And we’d like our kids to find peers among families that share communitas with us: so that they can see good role models outside the family, so they can have peers who support them through the cruel sensitivities of teen years, and so they can see that finding & developing their higher purposes in the world, is something that other people do besides their own family.

Something worth the ordeal.

07GWtube copyWe want communitas, and we’re talking openly about this with a few families at the moment. We’re dreaming, and asking what are their dreams they can’t do alone. And as those separate dreams become clear, we hope a big dream will emerge, one that is dependent on all of our little ones,  and deeply shared by us all.

And that will shape the future of Cheers into 2010.

And as we pursue that big dream together, we hope we will also find more communitas, for us our families, and beyond.

Inspiration

In-spir-ation: finding the spirit to go on. can_inspiration

Over the years in community development, I’ve noticed some drop away, and some keep on going. Sometimes the circumstances are legitimate, but sometimes all things are equal and yet only one has the spirit to keep going. What’s the difference? One has the in-spiration.  

It can be discouraging and disillusioning, when governments are obtuse, when friends abandon you, when others just don’t get it, and injustice keeps grinding on despite our best efforts. After a while you can be so battered that you just stop. The pain isn’t worth it. How do you get the spirit to keep on going?

This kind of resilience is psycho-spiritual. It’s not just a matter of knowledge & education. It’s a different way of being in the world. 

The kind of WORLD we want to live in, we all pretty much agree on.

That comes from the ACTIONS we need to do to make it a better world.

Which come from the VALUES we have that point us in the right direction, 
together with enough MOTIVATION and OPPORTUNITY to get off our butts and do it.  

But we also need the SPIRIT to prompt, guide, and keep us going.  

This ‘spirit’ can profoundly shape our values. It can restore us, strengthen us, show us new ways to survive, alter our expectations so that we’re not so needy, more open-handed and free in the work. It’s related to the conscience, but more than that. It nudges us beyond our own interests. 

I believe that for me, the Spirit that takes me beyond my own limits, is the living, dynamic, actual Spirit of Christ within me. It’s pretty powerful (the same Spirit that rose Christ from the dead!) Yet it’s pretty gentle (not overwhelming or pushing me. Gently leaving the choice to me.)

Most of the people I see who voluntarily keep going in good, sacrificial directions, have this in-Spir-ation.

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